“She belongs to me!! Why can’t she keep talking to me?? Why doesn’t she tell me anything??” These are a few questions which arise from a few people whom we see around us in our daily life. This boils down to one characteristic, Possessiveness. This particular trait can be found between the people in any relationship. They normally keep pondering over the thoughts of their friends and dear ones not being with them all the time or not sharing things with them. Possessive people normally carve for the attention of their friends or any relation that they feel secure with. Some people define it as love and care beyond limits, directed towards a particular person when we consider him/her as a part of our life.
Possessiveness is generally overpowering and commences people ending up thing deep about the relationship. It poses danger to the person who is possessive and the person he/she is being possessive of. It is due to feel of insecurity or low self esteem which in a relationship. Generally people won’t like it but they never show it out. Any relation in this world is based on 4 major factors “love, trust, intimacy and respect for people around”. These are normally called 4 pillars of a relation. When the pillars are strong everything goes well once there is some crack in the relation. The feeling of insecurity kindles and there are chances of destroying the whole relation. It s a known fact that people feel possessive of persons of the other sex.
Most of the time I hardly understand as to why people are so weird. I have found many a friends of mine who even wont allow their friends to talk to anyone else..Be yourself. Show care but don’t hurt the ones who care.If he/she is your friend then definitely they will be there for you all throughouth their lives .Trust them. Don’t limit them nor instruct them as to whom they should speak or talk.
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